Talk to him. Bring up the topic if exe’s (no need to say you looked at his phone) you must have an ex too l presume? Anyway, calmly and kindly tell/let him know that you understand it can take a while for someone to get over an ex, and that’s normal and okay – then make crystal clear that if he still has feelings for his ex he must pursue them until he is absolutely sure that it is over. Tell him that you want him to be happy and he owes it to himself – but also, you want no part in a man who has unfinished business. Be kind and listen to what he says, be prepared for him to leave.
You are not playing games, you are simply making sure his heart is free – and if it’s not, then you don’t want it. If he assures you its you he wants, you must choose to carry on as if you haven’t seen the texts (we all do stupid things when we’re drunk). But keep an eye on him – l don’t mean keep snooping btw – no good will come of that, look at now, you’re all uptight!!!
NEVER play 2nd fiddle. Take control of this situation your integrity depends on it.
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